Sudha Murthy said that fighting between couples is necessary, otherwise they are no longer husband and wife

Ananya Shroff
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Sudha Murthy said that fighting between couples is necessary, otherwise they are no longer husband and wife


Any relationship lasts long only when there is love between the people involved in that relationship, but it is often said that the more the couples fight, the more their love grows. You must have heard this somewhere and from someone. Sudha Narayan Murthy also said the same thing in one of her interviews.

Sudha Murthy, apart from being a writer, is also an MP and chairperson of the Infosys Foundation. She is known not only for her writing but also for expressing her views fearlessly. Similarly, Mrs. Murthy also expressed her views about love and said that it is necessary for a husband and wife to fight, if you never fight then you are not a husband and wife. Not only this, Sudha Murthy also told 3 more things related to relationships which every couple should know and understand. (Photo courtesy: ANI)

Second thing- if one is upset then the other remains calm

Extending her argument further, Mrs Murthy says, 'When you fight, one person gets hurt. In such a situation, the other person should remain calm. When Murthy is angry, I will never talk and let him say whatever he wants to say and keep quiet.'

Talking about her relationship with R Narayana Murthy, the writer smiles and says, “When I am angry, he remains quiet. But in real life, I remain quiet most of the time. You should never get upset together as it leads to fights.”

First thing- 'Fights between couples are necessary'

Sudha Murthy says about the love between couples that 'If you are a husband and wife, then you are born to fight. You have to accept that if you are saying that you have never fought, then you are not a husband and wife.' Couples who believe this should also pay attention to the other three things, because incomplete information is harmful.

Third thing- life is a name of give and take

Third thing- life is a name of give and take

The third thing the writer said was that 'As you know, life is about give and take. There is no perfect life here, there is no perfect couple here. Some good and some bad, she (addressing her husband) came with some plus-minus and I came with some plus-minus. So please understand.' If every couple understands this thing of Sudha Murthy, then every relationship can be maintained very well.

Fourth thing- husband should help his wife in the kitchen

Fourth thing- husband should help his wife in the kitchen

Sudha Murthy said something about husbands and other men that is very important for everyone to know. She said, 'I want every man of this generation to help his wife in the kitchen. This is very important. She may be a software engineer working in an office, so he should come home and cook food and attend PTA meetings.'

'No, you have to share your wife's burden, only then life will be comfortable. Since you live in the city and are young, both of you have desires, but you have to share your problems too.'

Also see: What else did Sudha Murthy say?

Those who like to eat food cooked by their mother

Those who like to eat food cooked by their mother

For husbands who prefer to eat their mother's cooked food or who often nag their wives about it, the author says, 'All men usually talk about is 'my mother was a very good cook' because she was not a working woman and used to cook all day. Here your wife is a working woman. How can you expect her to cook like your mother? It is not possible, so please understand this.'


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